Archive for June, 2007

New York has a lot going against it as far as customer service goes. You’ll run into a good amount of random people who are surprisingly nice, but God forbid it if their job is to serve you. Oddly enough, this is especially true if food and tipping are involved.

Yesterday I mentally and physically prepared myself to be shat on for several hours in a place where neither food nor tipping nor any kind of fun whatsoever may be had: the DMV. Most DMVs are absolute clusterfucks, and with New York’s population being what it is, I expected it to be especially brutal here.

I did all the preparing I possibly could before beginning the proverbial grueling journey. I had printed my application for a motorcycle permit from the DMV website and filled it out ahead of time. I amassed every single piece of ID they could possibly request of me. I brought along a book and a Gameboy in case the wait was really long… like, more than five minutes. I did not, however, print or read any part of the Motorcycle Course Manual that accompanies the test I’d be taking, but that’s beside the point.

When I got to the DMV (which is in a mall, which is pretty cool—more on that later), there was a line that went all the way out the door. I decided that couldn’t possibly be the right line for me, so I went inside. There was a much shorter line with a sign in front of it that read, “Learner’s Permits.” That’s me! I wanted a motorcycle learner’s permit, as indicated by the form that I had filled out after clicking the link that specifically read, “Motorcycle Permits.” I handed them 100 forms of ID, they took my picture, I waited a little longer, they gave me a test, I passed it, no problem. All I had to do then was wait for my number to be called and I would get my permit.

While I was waiting, Gus called to warn me of the perils of attempting to obtain any kind of license in New York while still holding a license in Texas. I guess he told some people at work what I was doing and everyone from out of state (a lot of people) had their own horror story. One of them involved paying 25 dollars to wait for a fax from some state department in Texas just to confirm that he had a license. Bah! I had read a little something about transferring licenses on the DMV site. There was so much paperwork and hoop-jumping involved that I got bored and stopped reading, deciding that I would somehow circumvent this. I told Gus that everything was cool and I was about to get my permit right then. As usual, I spoke too soon.

When I reached the window, some blickety-blahing and clickity-clacking happened, and I was informed that there was a “hold” on my license from the state of Texas. I immediately thought of last year’s incident where I was pulled over and later issued a warrant for my arrest.

Crap. I was afraid this might happen. I figured if Texas wanted to be assholes (yes, collectively), they could keep me from driving anywhere else until I took care of my ticket. I’m going back to Austin next month to attend a wedding, and I thought I might also turn myself in and spend a night in jail to take care of this ticket. But now I think I’m just going to attend a wedding. It’s for the best—Once in jail, I could suffer from a “medical condition,” enabling my dad’s lawyer to allow me to finish my sentence in my expensive, comfortable home, only to find out shortly after that I must go back to jail and serve more time than originally slated. Man, these rose-colored glasses are nice.

Anyway, that was a tangent. Nothing happened. You just can’t have two licenses of any kind from two states. It was at that point that they learned (because I told them) that I was trying to get a motorcycle permit, not a regular one. They said, “This is the right form, but you have to tell them that you’re here to take the motorcycle test.” And I kindly responded, “You can’t fault me for not answering a question I wasn’t asked.” There was some more nice discussion, but details on this are boring, so I’ll just say what happened: They ushered me back to the testing area, waited a whole five minutes for me to take and pass the motorcycle test, ushered me back to the window, and gave me a temporary New York license and a motorcycle permit. No paperwork and almost no time wasted.

Ta-da!

NY DMV is good people, I tell you what.

I was headed west on 33rd when I saw him. Crossing Broadway in New York City alongside hundreds of other people in broad daylight, I spotted one of my best friends from college. I hadn’t seen him in seven years, but I knew it was him right away.

I was crossing Broadway in the opposite direction, surrounded by people, spacing out… Then I glanced up and saw a ruddy-faced, fair-haired guy in his mid-twenties. He was alone and walking fast, eyes pointed, annoyed as hell that all these fucking assholes were clogging up 33rd and Broadway when he had to be somewhere. He was wearing one of those slightly wrinkled plaid shirts he used to wear whenever we were going out somewhere. The walk, the look, the shirt… I would have bet my last dollar it was him.

I looked right at him. He didn’t know it was me, as I was hidden behind my very large, stylish sunglasses. When we met eyes (well, when he saw me, another person in his goddamn way), I was completely dumbfounded. Before I could determine whether or not to say anything, he had passed. I walked a few more yards, trying to decide if I should run back across the street and try to catch him. Then I realized that by the time I could reach any type of conclusion, there would be no way I’d find him, so I just walked around the city slack-jawed for another hour.

I knew he was living here. He moved here for some gig in PR or advertising a long time ago. It makes perfect sense for him to be out and about in that part of town at lunchtime on a weekday.

I can’t believe I blew it. THIS is the meat of life. Dramatic moments like this are what I live for. I like drama. Not drama like “So-and-so is mad at you because you said this and her boyfriend got into a barfight with your boyfriend…” I mean uplifting drama—surprising, exciting drama. And I can’t help but think how beautifully serendipitous it would have been to shout his name, have him look at me like, “What the fuck?” and take off my sunglasses to reveal my identity. And then we’d hug and arrange to have dinner another day.

So, it looks like my seize-the-momentinator is broken. Le sigh…

No, I’m not going to post this in the “Missed Connections” section on craigslist or the Village Voice. We’re a lot alike, and I’m sure his view of those personals reflect mine: I’m way too busy to mess with something like that, but even if I had all the time in the world, I still wouldn’t rummage through that tripe in hopes that some random fart-knocker out there noticed me and thought I was hot. It’s like finding a needle in a haystack. Why waste your time when you can go out and buy a needle?

But I wouldn’t put it past him to google himself. We’re both pretty vain too. So, Ryan Christopher, alumnus of Louisiana State University, majoring in Mass Communication with a specialization in Advertising, former KVRX DJ, hailing from Slidell, Louisiana… I know you’re out there, and I saw you. Tag, you’re it.

Paris Hilton checks into Los Angeles County jail

A response to a similar article on yahoo (unedited, obviously):

paris hilton doesnt deserve to go to [profane]ing jail and all the [profane]ing asswholes who say she does u need to drop [profane]ing dead paris hilton is my role model! i loves her! and all the [profane]ing haters need to shut the [profane] up about paris hilton because u must feel real [profane]ing dumb to be making fun of someone i mean all the [profane] she did was drink and its not like she killed anyone!

I know we have this “No Child Left Behind” thing going on, but can we leave this one behind? Just this one. And I only suggest that because doctors don’t generally perform abortions in the 39th trimester.

For the two or three of you who haven’t seen it, this has been making its rounds and making me laugh:
[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b6s5bNv48LI]

You may find this surprising, but I’m actually not laughing at her misfortune. I like Paris… as a character in the public eye. When I’m bored, I turn on the TV and she entertains me. When I want to feel better about screwing around and doing nothing, I look at her and feel better about my life. She’s no role model and I sure as hell don’t want to meet her. I’m disappointed in those around me (young and old) who have chosen to emulate her. But I like her for the product that she is.

What I find funny is the investment that some other people seem to have in her. The video isn’t making fun of Paris so much as it is the photographers, entertainment pubs, and hapless fans who really will have nothing to talk about with Paris gone for the next few weeks.

And what makes me any better for paying attention to any of this? Nothing. But please bear in mind this is the fourth day of my third Master Cleanse, I just drank a quart of salt water, and I have yet to take a shit this morning. I need to stay close to a bathroom and focus on the task at hand, and this topic didn’t seem too far-fetched. Have a great day, everyone!

I was making some tea in the kitchen when I noticed a HUGE cockroach on the wall. What the hell? I traded the muggy Louisina bayou for a concrete jungle, and Manhattan is as concretey as it gets. Also, the roach was probably the size of my fingernail (instead of my fist) and it couldn’t fly, so my initial fear of it may have been a little melodramatic.

Anyway, it was kind of in the corner by some cabinets—a little hard to get to. A little swat won’t do it either. You gotta crush those things or they’ll just take off running. So I wadded up a paper towel and pressed into the corner as hard as I could.

Of course, I didn’t kill it. I ran away and now I have a giant bruise under my thumb nail from pressing. It hurts physically, and psychologically because it’s a constant reminder that there’s some nasty little roach running around my tiny kitchen and it could possibly jump in my food, or breed, or vomit on my utensils, or crawl into my ear while I’m sleeping…

AAARRRGGGHHH! Dammit.

Frail and smiling, ‘Dr. Death’ walks out of prison

It’s getting crowded out here again.